If you ask a group of ten-year-olds if thirty is old they would all say yes. If you ask teenagers whether they think their parents are cool they would all say no. The reason kids and teenagers answer these questions the way they do is because they lack perspective which comes only through maturity.
If you ask every woman in the world if a man should be allowed to dress and act like a woman, the majority would say yes. However, if you ask every woman who has gone through menopause or a menstrual cycle or given birth if any man knows what it is like to be a woman, you would be hard pressed to find anyone in good conscience to say yes.
No one can claim to be me but me. To be me you would have had to have been born me, then go through every trial and forge every relationship which contributed to who I am. You can say you are me. You can wear my clothes and change your appearance to look like me. You can even sing my songs, but the best you will ever be is a good counterfeit.
Some people might feel honored to have someone imitate them in such a way, but I’m sure that feeling would change when the counterfeit starts to spend the original’s money. What liberals call gender identity I call identity theft.
A true woman earns the right to be praised and honored by men and women alike for their strength and spirit which they purchased on the maturity road to womanhood. Someone attempting to spend what someone else has earned is thievery. Consequently, someone attempting to claim the rights, privileges and honor of women who has not entered the race from the starting point, but rather has paved a short cut for the sake of attention and praise is an affront to womanhood and an embarrassment to mankind.
Immaturity says, “But look at what he gave up.” The perspective of maturity says, “Look what he dishonors.”
An article written by an American Airlines pilot recently suggested, “It is not the general public’s responsibility to treat every Arab/Muslim as if he’s not a terrorist. It is the responsibility of the Arab/Muslims to prove to us they are not.” The pilot made a compelling argument which closed with the recurring phrase “You worry me,” which served as the theme of the piece.
It takes bravery and humility to look at life’s challenges through a biblical lens. Through such a lens God’s word is unmistakably clear on one point: We should worry for nothing. All the justification in the world, therefore, will not condone entertaining an urge for which the word of God has warned us to resist. The Bible is also adamant on another principle: Do that which pleases God and be blessed; don’t do them and be cursed. It stands to reason then, if terrorism is a curse, we did something to trigger it. To understand what that something is, we need to widen our scope of view. Read the rest of this entry »
A Christian radio talk show host has a contest every so often where he invites his listeners to call in and present the gospel to him as if he’s a non-believer. Listening to type A personalities bulldoze their way through a one-sided conversation has its entertainment value, but so does watching a car accident.
I was in sales for 25 years. I started as a cold caller – Someone who knocks on the door of a business without an appointment, gets through the gatekeeper, pitches the owner and closes the deal in one call. The hardest part of my job wasn’t understanding what my product could do or verbalizing how my service would benefit a business. My tallest hurdle was dealing with the aftermath caused by the droves of rookie salespeople that preceded me. Read the rest of this entry »
The following riddle contains four clues. The answer might be you which could be very good. The answer might also be you and could be very bad.
1. While everyone else is proclaiming their grief and sorrow to be the most formidable, I am grieved for their grief. Who am I? Read the rest of this entry »
There are two ways to get children somewhere on time. One way is to wake them up, set out their clothes, prepare their food and drive them everywhere they need to be. Another is to help out only when needed, and, if the kids miss the bus, they walk to school. If both schools of thought get the same good result, are both methods of getting the result good?
The only way to determine the quality of the upbringing is to evaluate the child’s behavior when they are on their own. More specifically, how the child handles personal responsibility. The child who relies on someone else to get them up in the morning will only appear to be responsible as long as someone is there to assist. That same child will unlikely be successful in any action where punctuality is foundational since some responsibilities are necessary for other responsibilities to rest upon. Read the rest of this entry »
Most people prefer listening to the music they grew up with. Being a teenager in the seventies, I knew every James Taylor song by heart. I would listen to the same recording again and again. I could anticipate the intro of the next song in the silence between the tracks. When the last song came around it made me sad, but then it began again from the beginning and everything was alright. I hoped for another James Taylor song to add to my list of favorites but it never came.
With the exception of Paul McCartney, whose career, list of accomplishments and longevity are unparalleled, most writers tend to produce their best work early then slowly fade away. Do these once upon a time writers stop producing new material because their creative well dried up? If so, what would turn an oasis into a desert, especially in the later years when there is so much more to say? Read the rest of this entry »
There is nothing wrong with feeling good about oneself. It is in fact a state of being which God desires for us. It is crucial, however, how we arrive at such a conclusion.
One of the most popular philosophies people use to boost their self-esteem is Humanism, a system of values and beliefs based on the idea people are basically good and that problems can be solved using reason instead of religion. Humanism also generally prefers individual thought and evidence (rationalism, empiricism) over established doctrine or faith (fideism).
Humanism is based on the supposition people are basically good which suggests goodness is a state of being when it is not. Goodness is a state of doing. Reason may be able to get someone out of a pit but without instruction and sound doctrine what prevents a person from falling in the first place?
Evidence proves humans have more potential than any living creature, but to assume having great potential makes humans good is easily debatable. From ecology to human rights it is apparent humanism alone has done more harm than good for the simple truth it assumes responsibility is inherent when it is not.
The Humanist stands behind rational thought, but whatever good can come from rational thought is negated by an under abundance of rational thinkers on both sides of the equation. Read the rest of this entry »
Two guys walk into a doctor’s office. The doctor tells them both they are going to die in six months. Six months later one dies while the other lives another thirty years. Why the difference? – Perhaps because one believed the prognosis and the other did not. If this is true, do people die from the presence of disease or an absence of faith?
Let us assume for argument’s sake, disease is a guardrail on the road of life; a not-so-subtle reminder something is wrong and/or missing. If disease is a symptom based on unhealthy actions initiated by bad choices, what precedes the choice? What convinces us to continue to make detrimental decisions as well as turn a blind eye to their consequences? Read the rest of this entry »
Landowners having voting rights makes sense. Authority should be based on responsibility provided there is sufficient means of holding the responsible party accountable. Business owners having a right to vote also makes sense. What does not make sense is giving voting rights to the unaccountable. Today, when the irresponsible cast their vote, it is received with the same weight as the vote of a land or business owner. When this occurs, the value shifts from the land or business and gives equal weight to the unaccountable by diluting the value of those willing to take responsibility. Equally disturbing is when the unaccountable were first allowed to vote, the social incentive to own land or a business was eliminated as well as any need to develop the skill and fortitude necessary to maintain them. Read the rest of this entry »
The 700 Club featured a story which aired Wednesday, March 9th 2011, where an English journalist, Patrick Strudwick, posing to be a homosexual seeking help in leaving the gay lifestyle from Christian counselor, Leslie Pilkington. According to the 700 Club’s story, journalist Strudwick recorded counselor Pilkington praying and contradicting the popular claim homosexuals do not have a choice.
The fact a Christian woman was deliberately targeted did not surprise me. The fact unscrupulous tactics were used to lure the counselor’s trust left me unaffected. The inundation of paraded cries for attention and recognition of the self-proclaimed plight of the persecuted homosexual has deafened my ears. What captured my interest was a quote the journalist used to justify his position. He said, “Love needs no cure.” The homosexual community has already ruined one perfectly good word. I for one will not be silent while another misguided soul corrupts another one, certainly not the word love. Read the rest of this entry »