There are two ways to get children somewhere on time. One way is to wake them up, set out their clothes, prepare their food and drive them everywhere they need to be. Another is to help out only when needed, and, if the kids miss the bus, they walk to school. If both schools of thought get the same good result, are both methods of getting the result good?
The only way to determine the quality of the upbringing is to evaluate the child’s behavior when they are on their own. More specifically, how the child handles personal responsibility. The child who relies on someone else to get them up in the morning will only appear to be responsible as long as someone is there to assist. That same child will unlikely be successful in any action where punctuality is foundational since some responsibilities are necessary for other responsibilities to rest upon. Read the rest of this entry »